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Anyone else feel for janitors and others with similar jobs?

post #1 of 62
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I'm in my office at school (I teach a class while going to school so they put me up in a pretty nice office) and I notice down below that this young nice looking janitor has been working extremely hard for the last several hours. In a few minutes she'll come in as she always does with a smile on her face and ask me if I'd like or need anything. I can't help but think that my mocha whatever coffee drink and pie was more $ than her daily wage (our janitors only work from 4-8 am).

My ? is this...You see people all the time in jobs that have zero prestige busting their ass and you wonder if they have that much work ethic now why didn't they work hard earlier and put themselves in position for a better career? I know some mentally just do not have the ability but I talk to these people quite often and in general a good portion of them are intelligent people. I also wonder why people settle for these jobs. I know sometimes short term when they lose a job they take whatever they can find but often you'll find a decently intelligent person working a poor job for a very long time.

Blows my mind sometimes
post #2 of 62
I am always extremely nice and respectful to people with shitty jobs. There's no reason to look down on them because you're able to, society has a hundreds levels, and there's always others who can look down on you.
post #3 of 62
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Originally Posted by Eason View Post
I am always extremely nice and respectful to people with shitty jobs. There's no reason to look down on them because you're able to, society has a hundreds levels, and there's always others who can look down on you.

oh I agree....billions that can look down on me financially at the moment as I'm trying to build my company, continue to work for my dad's, finish my last degree, and help my fiancee pay for med school I'm pretty broke these days. Spent too much money on her ring and some property and I'm paying for it right now.

I wasn't looking down on them with my OP I was just asking why some of these people who could easily have a better job stay in the shitty job they currently have.
post #4 of 62
Maybe there is someone a couple of floors up from you wondering why what appears to be a reasonably intelligent guy hasnt managed to build his company, finish school, and pay off his girlfriend's med school yet...

I'm not trying to give you shit, but everything is relative.

Our house cleaner is here right now. She is incredibly hard working and very personable. She used to be a paramedic in Poland, but because her English is lacking she can't get a paramedic gig here yet. She cleans for a bit of spare cash while she goes to language school (her boyfriend is an IT Manager and makes a decent living for both of them). I dont look down on her for what she does. She likes getting out of the house, hangs out and has a chat with us, and earns some extra cash...

K
post #5 of 62
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Originally Posted by VKK3450 View Post
Maybe there is someone a couple of floors up from you wondering why what appears to be a reasonably intelligent guy hasnt managed to build his company, finish school, and pay off his girlfriend's med school yet...

I'm not trying to give you shit, but everything is relative.

Our house cleaner is here right now. She is incredibly hard working and very personable. She used to be a paramedic in Poland, but because her English is lacking she can't get a paramedic gig here yet. She cleans for a bit of spare cash while she goes to language school (her boyfriend is an IT Manager and makes a decent living for both of them). I dont look down on her for what she does. She likes getting out of the house, hangs out and has a chat with us, and earns some extra cash...

K


Again I'm talking about the people who stay in these jobs for long periods of time or their entire careers...

Also I'm on the top floor ...They put the higher up/important people lower. I like the view down into the atrium from up here though and all of the offices are the same size (one of the Dean's is in this building and his is no larger than mine).
post #6 of 62
sometimes the best way to happiness is to find the job that fits you best and stay there. some people have abilities that really fit certain jobs, and by not fighting to achieve more they really do achieve a level of happiness and harmony.
post #7 of 62
There are days when I think having a job like that could certainly have its benefits. Depending on the situation, you'd have very little stress, fairly predictable hours, and if one had simple tastes, the money could be adequate in some areas. There are occasions when I'll make conversation with someone in a service job and think to myself "shit, I'd like to hire this person" so I think in many cases, it's a choice.
post #8 of 62
Maybe they like what they do. Not everyone aspires to move up - some are content where they are.
post #9 of 62
As someone who's cleaned his fair share of toilets and toiled away at shit jobs, I have the utmost respect for janitors and the like. And it pisses me off when I see inconsiderate people leave their trash laying around with the expectation that someone else is going to pick it up for them. Work is work, and I'll respect anyone who does it well.
post #10 of 62
My dad moonlighted as a custodian for a while when I was a little kid. He never complained about it.

My older brother worked as an elementary-school janitor for one year while waiting to get hired as a USPS mail carrier. He complained more about his postal route than he ever complained about his janitor job.

My first job was at a small newspaper office, where I did proofreading, typesetting, and some paste-up work. The editor didn't want to hire a custodian, so he paid me a little extra to keep the office tidy and to do the major custodial work every Sunday. It was a good stress-reliever, getting the opportunity to work alone without the pressure of deadlines, egos, and expectations.
post #11 of 62
i'm not trying to be a dick, but i think it is extremely arrogant to start a thread like this. who's to say you have it better? anything can happen and anyone who is honest and works hard is okay in my book.
post #12 of 62
Philosopher and ploughman
Each must know his part
To bring us
Closer to the heart

My ES staff all seem pretty content with their lot. On many levels, I envy them.
post #13 of 62
.....salesman!
post #14 of 62
I don't look down on anyone working on any job as long as they are working hard... It's pretty much all about circumstance.

Being a hard worker is a trait that is just as admirable as being a super genius. What really, really pisses me off is when people intentionally leave trash or do dumb shit and say "Oh, the janitors will pick it up, it's their job." It's disgusting.
post #15 of 62
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i'm not trying to be a dick, but i think it is extremely arrogant to start a thread like this. who's to say you have it better? anything can happen and anyone who is honest and works hard is okay in my book.

+1 That janitor, laborer, etc. earned that job just like you earned whatever you have. Simply because something doesn't fit your definition of prestigious or good doesn't make it somehow below you.

Plus, this guy



seemed a lot happier than this guy:

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