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Originally Posted by
unjung 
SF has a big hate-on for any thread focused on building a relationship. Threads about ending one, we love. I think it stems from a massive influx of these types of posts from teenagers over the last few months, and there's a sort of "I figured it out on my own, so you have to too" theme that prevails. Truth be told, in most cases, the posters should be able to figure out the answers themselves, if they give it some rational thought. At some point you have to be able to deal with these situations on your own anyway - you can't always run to someone else for advice; you've got to figure out the "rules" for dealing with women.
My advice is, next time she's into it, even if you're not, go along with it and treat it like there's something there until you know for sure. Then you should have enough info to decide if you want to make it last, or never think about her again.
Thanks for this. I appreciate the introduction/initiation.
Truth be told, I've been poring over a lot of threads in this part of the forum for the last few days and was starting to grow fond of some of the discussions that you guys have. I think the combination of office boredom and actual pain stemming from my situation incited me to write about it. In fact, I've appreciated the advice and opinions given so far - which I interpret variously as me being immature, being a homo, being weak, being fickle etc. etc. which are all true to (wildly) varying degrees. In the final synthesis, though, you're totally right. I'm going to have to deal with this myself.
