Originally Posted by Big Pun
What do guys do when their wives/girl friends start steadily gaining a lot of weight? Hold their tongues and get a Cialis Rx?
You treat her like you'd treat any friend with a problem
A,) create a safe & comfortable space. This means privacy and remove anything
she can use as a weapon-ashtrays-letter openers whatever.
B.) set up a covert camera and mic in case she goes postal & then tells the cops you were abusing her.
C.) In a quiet loving non judgmental
way, say that in your observation she is having a slight weight problem. You don't care, your attracted to her for her deeper qualities.
It's just that in this culture she will be treated better if she loses a few pounds. It 's just part of the very superficial world we live in. Express that you know it may be difficult but your her man and you will go on the diet-juiceclense-exersise with her. If she commits to this, your with her every step of the way. If she elects to remain a plus size, your still with her.
If she wants to lose the weight,man up and support her in any way she needs,
If she elects to remain a plus size, lose her number, block her on social media, avoid her at all functions. If you go to the same church, become an atheist. In short lose the bitch.