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post #16 of 22
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Originally Posted by KBW View Post
I went out with a girl the other night (FRIEND as I'm about to get married) and she immediately made me wish I hadn't taken her out to dinner. She went on and on about how much I could reduce my carbon footprint if I cut down on my meat intake (I had some sort of mexican chicken soup as an appetizer that was incredible and a filet and lobster for the main (I'm bulking). I told her that I drive a land rover that gets 16 miles per gallon and she about died

Gross.
post #17 of 22
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Originally Posted by nahneun View Post
I'm generally okay with their preferences if they tried it before, but if they condemn it without even a taste, they're just idiots in my book.

FTFY

Yeah, I tend to feel the same way. I used to be a really picky eater (still am, to a degree) and was loathe to try new things. I didn't even eat Indian food until I moved to NYC. Now, although my first instinct (with seafood especially) is to decline, I've started trying it and finding I usually like it.

I've hear that our tastes tend to shift every few years as we mature and our brain adjusts. The whole sweet=safe bitter=death thing and all that - as we get older we realize isn't always the case. So even if we didn't like something we tried many years ago, we might like it now.

Which is a long way of saying - just try it. Unless the place is really expensive and I know for certain I'm not going to like it, why not go experience something new?

On the same token though - If Bob likes Chinese food and Susie doesn't, Bob shouldn't look at it like Susie is judging him or insulting him. It's sometimes not about Bob, you know? Sometimes it really is just a personal preference.
post #18 of 22
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Originally Posted by MsMcGillicuddy View Post
FTFY

Yeah, I tend to feel the same way. I used to be a really picky eater (still am, to a degree) and was loathe to try new things. I didn't even eat Indian food until I moved to NYC. Now, although my first instinct (with seafood especially) is to decline, I've started trying it and finding I usually like it.

I've hear that our tastes tend to shift every few years as we mature and our brain adjusts. The whole sweet=safe bitter=death thing and all that - as we get older we realize isn't always the case. So even if we didn't like something we tried many years ago, we might like it now.

Which is a long way of saying - just try it. Unless the place is really expensive and I know for certain I'm not going to like it, why not go experience something new?

On the same token though - If Bob likes Chinese food and Susie doesn't, Bob shouldn't look at it like Susie is judging him or insulting him. It's sometimes not about Bob, you know? Sometimes it really is just a personal preference.

Good catch. Thanks! I just woke up when I made that post.
post #19 of 22
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Originally Posted by MsMcGillicuddy View Post
FTFY

Yeah, I tend to feel the same way. I used to be a really picky eater (still am, to a degree) and was loathe to try new things. I didn't even eat Indian food until I moved to NYC. Now, although my first instinct (with seafood especially) is to decline, I've started trying it and finding I usually like it.

I've hear that our tastes tend to shift every few years as we mature and our brain adjusts. The whole sweet=safe bitter=death thing and all that - as we get older we realize isn't always the case. So even if we didn't like something we tried many years ago, we might like it now.

Which is a long way of saying - just try it. Unless the place is really expensive and I know for certain I'm not going to like it, why not go experience something new?

On the same token though - If Bob likes Chinese food and Susie doesn't, Bob shouldn't look at it like Susie is judging him or insulting him. It's sometimes not about Bob, you know? Sometimes it really is just a personal preference.

A lot of foods that people just won't eat is the result of a mental block. Unless you have an extremely keen palate, if someone were to blindfold you and have you taste things like organ meat or anything else you wouldnt normally eat, you'd probably like it.
post #20 of 22
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Originally Posted by Douglas View Post
Because I cannot tolerate ignorance.

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Originally Posted by nahneun View Post
I'm generally okay with their preferences if they tried it before, but if they condemn it without even a taste, they're just idiots in my book.

That resume my opinion on this subject
post #21 of 22
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Originally Posted by MsMcGillicuddy View Post
On the same token though - If Bob likes Chinese food and Susie doesn't, Bob shouldn't look at it like Susie is judging him or insulting him. It's sometimes not about Bob, you know? Sometimes it really is just a personal preference.

Who is Bob and why doesn't Susie like Chinese food? Is Bob Chinese-Canadian?
post #22 of 22
cause people need that drama in their life....
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