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[br]Started off at a friends condo drinking a few to start off the evening with a couple other buddies.
We decided to make our way to a quaint dim sum wine bar. I shared pork/potato and shrimp dumplings with a friend while knocking a couple more beers back. The music was horrendous though, and being with a friend who is a music teacher just made it even more obvious for us amateurs.
We then proceeded to hit a bar/dance club at around 9:30pm when we where finished eating. The place was dead as usual until around 11:30. We were up stairs chilling, switching now to hard alcohol instead of beer. One friend nearly passed out (he drank a LOT before even leaving) but he caught his second wind around 11:00. We found a few more friends there and some nice girls and proceeded to hit the basement which is where the dance floor is. We were standing at the bar drinking more when 3 cute cubanas took my arm and we danced the rest of the night away. My friends where out there as well and it was a good time, they played too much hip hop but some good latin beats where thrown in the mix. At the end of the night we went to a pizza restaurant quickly and then went back to his condo where I proceeded to pass out rather quickly.
Thus ends another pretty good weekend. Hopefully next weekend possibly New York. Ferry Corsten is coming but not sure if we will be attending.
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[br]where do you live vision?
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[br]Rolled around NY Saturday. Got out of bed and had a late lunch at Menchanko-tei. We then strolled around Soho for a while, checking out a bunch of different stores. Bought some thermals and a warm coat at Patagonia. After browsing for a while, we took a break at the L'occitane cafe in Soho. After some more window shopping, we met a friend down in Chinatown at Peking Duck House. Predictably, we had Peking duck. I also had a couple of beers. We then took a cab down to Greenwich Village to a nice little cafe where we chatted and drank coffee beverages. Can't remember the name of the cafe, it was chosen at random.
Right now my wife is at work, and I'm procrastinating. I should be doing some homework.
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[br]where do you live vision?
I live in Connecticut, which isn't the most exciting place on the planet. New Haven is probably the lone bright spot on the map, or perhaps Stamford. Thankfully we have easy access to NYC or Boston.
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[br]1. Took my dog to the Silverlake Dog Park, he tried to hump his way around the usual crew. He only took a small dump so the day didn't start badly.
2. Lunched at The Old Kings Head Santa Monica, my brothers over from England so I'm trying to off-set his homesickness (Lager with a head, Fish & Chips, Cake & Custard).
3. Cruised into Kid Robot, nothing going on.
4. Checked out HTC at Fred Segal, has anyone seen the latest dry jeans from Rogan?, dudes lost his mind! nasty nasty!. I'll come clean and finally admit Rag & Bone have put a fine denim package together, prices are still a problem for me though!.
5. Took a drive into Malibu with the wife, bro and dog along PCH, grabbed a Starbucks, took a glimpse and a smurk at all the fake boobies and face-lifts. Is it only me or does Malibu Village always smell of poo?.
6. Watched Hustle & Flow on DVD, thought it was terrible, contrived, slow etc......crappy movie.
Rolled hard...rolled hard........
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[br]sat nite went to a "Vintage ska/rocksteady/skinhead reggae" nite in Silverlake. Dressed in a wool/mohair Ozwald Boateng dark eggplant suit, vintage thin tie, purple/pink checked shirt, black pointed toe Dolce & Gab wingtips. Gf dressed equally sharp with a vintage pencil skirt, Lulu Guinness red kittenheels, grey Anthropologie 60s style sweater, agnes b wool coat. Met up with some equally sussed geezers for a good nite of gettin our dance on with plenty of soul, ska, rocksteady.
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[br]Crazy crazy night...
Was supposed to go to the bars, but ended up going to a friends instead. Her BF came over drunk and was starting stuff with everyone. Ended up hitting her, and then picked her up and tossed her onto a table that was covered in glasses and bottles. We kick him out and lock the door. 5 mins later he kicks the door in, and then he starts stuff with me, pushing me and just generally talking me down. He was getting more violent and started breaking random stuff in the house, and throwing objects at her. Then he starts pushing me and tries to kick me out of a house that doesnt belong to him. I grab his arm and throw him onto the ground, get on top, grab a knife from the table that was used for cutting limes (Corona night), and hold it to him, tell him he needs to leave now. I don't hurt him, but I make sure to draw some blood from his throat so he knows I'm not kiddign around. Normally I am not one to get into fights, but he was waaayy out of line and she was crying and really freaking out. She is calling the cops next time he comes over.
Now, back home, about to go to bed and sleep it off...
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[br]Crazy crazy night...
Was supposed to go to the bars, but ended up going to a friends instead. Her BF came over drunk and was starting stuff with everyone. Ended up hitting her, and then picked her up and tossed her onto a table that was covered in glasses and bottles. We kick him out and lock the door. 5 mins later he kicks the door in, and then he starts stuff with me, pushing me and just generally talking me down. He was getting more violent and started breaking random stuff in the house, and throwing objects at her. Then he starts pushing me and tries to kick me out of a house that doesnt belong to him. I grab his arm and throw him onto the ground, get on top, grab a knife from the table that was used for cutting limes (Corona night), and hold it to him, tell him he needs to leave now. I don't hurt him, but I make sure to draw some blood from his throat so he knows I'm not kiddign around. Normally I am not one to get into fights, but he was waaayy out of line and she was crying and really freaking out. She is calling the cops next time he comes over.
Now, back home, about to go to bed and sleep it off...
She's going to call the cops the
NEXT time he comes over? Are you s**ttin' me? You have no idea what sort of mess you are in here. What was the reason for not calling the cops during his rampage? If she is putting up with his s**t, and not calling the cops, she is crazy. Being a knight in shining armor for a crazy chick can only lead to bad things. This sort of thing only leads to emergency room visits, lawyer bills, or having to buy a nice funeral suit....hopefully not your own.
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[br]Had a party last night at some guy's house. Just chatted and drank with moderation. Only weak point of the evening was around 2:30AM when a drunk guy who had been dumped by her girlfriend earlier in the day left without saying anything and no one saw him go. I didn't know the guy but, whatever, I went up with a friend of mine (who doesn't know him either) and three of the guys friend so we could try to find him. He had managed to drunk-drive all the way up to his home but we had one of his friend to go and tell him no to do that ever again. Hell, I don't know him but if he needed money I would have lended some help paying that taxi bill or got one of my friend to drive him home. (would have done it myself if I had a car and wouldn't have, myself, have qualified for drunk driving...).
There's another party tonight and it has potential to get wild. Should be fun!
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[br]Crazy crazy night...
Was supposed to go to the bars, but ended up going to a friends instead. Her BF came over drunk and was starting stuff with everyone. Ended up hitting her, and then picked her up and tossed her onto a table that was covered in glasses and bottles. We kick him out and lock the door. 5 mins later he kicks the door in, and then he starts stuff with me, pushing me and just generally talking me down. He was getting more violent and started breaking random stuff in the house, and throwing objects at her. Then he starts pushing me and tries to kick me out of a house that doesnt belong to him. I grab his arm and throw him onto the ground, get on top, grab a knife from the table that was used for cutting limes (Corona night), and hold it to him, tell him he needs to leave now. I don't hurt him, but I make sure to draw some blood from his throat so he knows I'm not kiddign around. Normally I am not one to get into fights, but he was waaayy out of line and she was crying and really freaking out. She is calling the cops next time he comes over.
Now, back home, about to go to bed and sleep it off...
She's going to call the cops the
NEXT time he comes over? Are you s**ttin' me? You have no idea what sort of mess you are in here. What was the reason for not calling the cops during his rampage? If she is putting up with his s**t, and not calling the cops, she is crazy. Being a knight in shining armor for a crazy chick can only lead to bad things. This sort of thing only leads to emergency room visits, lawyer bills, or having to buy a nice funeral suit....hopefully not your own.
Jay,
Yeah, was not in the best frame of mind last night, and acted kind of stupid. Anyway, cops were not called because there were drugs and alcohol in the house and she is under 21, and was very intoxicated. She is actually a very stable person but is just way too nice and tries to see good in everyone, even from this POS. She cannot shake him off, because every time they break up, he'll do something like kick in the back door or break in a window in the middle of the night to talk. They had broken up for 2 weeks one time, and she had started seeing another guy. The new guy woke up in the middle of the night one time with her ex-bf standing over him, knife to his throat. We have no idea how he got into his house, but he did. This is the kind of situation it is.
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[br]Crazy crazy night...
Was supposed to go to the bars, but ended up going to a friends instead. Her BF came over drunk and was starting stuff with everyone. Ended up hitting her, and then picked her up and tossed her onto a table that was covered in glasses and bottles. We kick him out and lock the door. 5 mins later he kicks the door in, and then he starts stuff with me, pushing me and just generally talking me down. He was getting more violent and started breaking random stuff in the house, and throwing objects at her. Then he starts pushing me and tries to kick me out of a house that doesnt belong to him. I grab his arm and throw him onto the ground, get on top, grab a knife from the table that was used for cutting limes (Corona night), and hold it to him, tell him he needs to leave now. I don't hurt him, but I make sure to draw some blood from his throat so he knows I'm not kiddign around. Normally I am not one to get into fights, but he was waaayy out of line and she was crying and really freaking out. She is calling the cops next time he comes over.
Now, back home, about to go to bed and sleep it off...
She's going to call the cops the
NEXT time he comes over? Are you s**ttin' me? You have no idea what sort of mess you are in here. What was the reason for not calling the cops during his rampage? If she is putting up with his s**t, and not calling the cops, she is crazy. Being a knight in shining armor for a crazy chick can only lead to bad things. This sort of thing only leads to emergency room visits, lawyer bills, or having to buy a nice funeral suit....hopefully not your own.
Jay,
Yeah, was not in the best frame of mind last night, and acted kind of stupid. Anyway, cops were not called because there were drugs and alcohol in the house and she is under 21, and was very intoxicated. She is actually a very stable person but is just way too nice and tries to see good in everyone, even from this POS. She cannot shake him off, because every time they break up, he'll do something like kick in the back door or break in a window in the middle of the night to talk. They had broken up for 2 weeks one time, and she had started seeing another guy. The new guy woke up in the middle of the night one time with her ex-bf standing over him, knife to his throat. We have no idea how he got into his house, but he did. This is the kind of situation it is.
Isn't this "restraining order" time?
Has your friend talked with anyone about, if nothing else, possible steps she can take to protect herself? Change the locks, secure the windows, etc. The alcohol and drugs being part of the mix may cause hesitancy to file a report, but I have to believe a history of breaking and entering, physical abuse, and a knife at another's throat trumps the pause. What more is needed?
It's a stupid situation in which no one should be involved. If "next time he comes over" means a line has finally been drawn, then, great, best of luck, hope it doesn't come to that and everyone moves on. But if it means doing nothing and hoping, that's almost asking for trouble.
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[br]Yeah, it really is a shame because she is a very sweet and smart girl, but got herself involved in something she doesn't know how to get out of. I think she always takes him back because of what he might do if she broke up with him.
I am going to talk to her today. I knew the relationship wasn't great, and thought some of it might have been exaggerated, but was shocked to see what it was like.
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[br]relaxing weekend....
today went out to Saigon Country Club...played some social softball, sat by the pool, saw my friends gf with another guy, called my friend, watched Brokeback Mountain on pirate DVD, contemplated career switch to gay-cowboy.