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lack of courage

post #1 of 41
5/27/09 at 10:33am
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i dont know why i lack the courage to date the girl i like. How to overcome this problem??
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post #2 of 41
5/27/09 at 10:38am
quit being a pussy and just do it! The worst that's going to happen is she says no. Set the ego aside and man up.
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post #3 of 41
5/27/09 at 11:32am
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i dont know why i lack the courage to date the girl i like. How to overcome this problem??

All girls want is for a guy or guys to come up and talk to them. That's it. You're doing them a favor.
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post #4 of 41
5/27/09 at 11:54am
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All girls want is for a guy or guys to come up and talk to them. That's it. You're doing them a favor.
This is key. Anyways, you have to accept the fact that you might get rejected. It doesn't matter if you get turned down. You haven't invested anything into her yet, so losing her is nothing. If it doesn't work out there's a shit load out there just like her. People you don't know are expendable, especially girls. When you suck at something fucking up at first is apart of the getting good process. Guys who don't act will get that what if shit going on for the rest of their lives, and worse they'll be beating off about the bitch. Better to give yourself a conclusion.
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post #5 of 41
5/27/09 at 12:04pm
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i dont know why i lack the courage to date the girl i like. How to overcome this problem??

I think you need to learn to round 3rd base. Where did that guy go?
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post #6 of 41
5/27/09 at 12:09pm
the dancer?
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post #7 of 41
5/27/09 at 12:33pm
Some (or maybe a lot) alcohol in your body, along with an offer of cash to the girl.

This strategy usually works pretty good.
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post #8 of 41
5/27/09 at 12:38pm
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Some (or maybe a lot) alcohol in your body, along with an offer of cash to the girl.

This strategy usually works pretty good.

But he likes this girl. At some point he'd need to have a sober conversation with her.
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post #9 of 41
5/27/09 at 12:41pm
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quit being a pussy and just do it! The worst that's going to happen is she says no. Set the ego aside and man up.

+1. Grow a pair man.
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post #10 of 41
5/27/09 at 12:46pm
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But he likes this girl. At some point he'd need to have a sober conversation with her.

in fact, she called me several times for chatting and asking me some advice, we talked in a happy way, but i never call her
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post #11 of 41
5/27/09 at 12:54pm
Sounds to me like she's interested, grow a pair and ask her out. Worst case scenario she says no.
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post #12 of 41
5/27/09 at 12:56pm
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in fact, she called me several times for chatting and asking me some advice, we talked in a happy way, but i never call her

You're probably fucked. Just make a move and get it over with, just in case.
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post #13 of 41
5/27/09 at 1:12pm
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he may or may not be in the "friend zone" already, but forcing an ultimatum on her is not good advice. especially if she is part of his social circle. whether she is into you should never be a guessing game.

What makes you say she is part of his social circle? I didn't get that sense from his posts. It sounds like she's a vague acquaintance. She calls him to talk once in awhile, he never calls her. Doesn't sound too close to me.

It's a guessing game a good bit of the time. Just sack up and do it. Only way to know for sure.
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post #14 of 41
5/27/09 at 1:13pm
Here is a simple rule...

You need to need to talk to about 10 girls to get 1 phone number.

You need to call and date 10 of those girls to get 1 woman worth something more.

That is about how it works. 100 women to find 1 decent woman.

That means lots of rejection on both sides. . . you'll stop calling and dating lots of them, lots won't give you their numbers, or they will stop calling you, etc. It takes work. Sack up and realize rejection doesn't mean anything, you don't want the women to take it personally and they don't want you to take it personally.
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post #15 of 41
5/27/09 at 1:14pm
Maybe a 10 page letter?
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