available poon vs. desired poon

Dude, just find a nice guy and settle down. It's clearly what you really want, deep down inside.

Alright..
My advice (from personal experience): Get the poon out of the way, just get it done. It's not a big deal, don't overthink things (like you know you tend to do). I used to be the same. Here's what you do: get with the girls you can now-you're young! After a few girls.. you will see your swagger, confidence, and steez increase dramatically. Your reputation will change a bit too if people find out about it. I bet now they think that you're a great friend.. but you're too nice and you have no experience in the sack. That's why they are your friend.. they're not threatened by you trying to sleep with them; they know you won't try. So change this perception that the girls have of you by just being a whore for a little bit. Then you're still the same guy.. the girls will have that surprised expression "Wow, I didn't know that you could DO that" type of perception of you.
Example: I worked at a camp last summer, everyone there thought I was still innocent. I was still too young at the time to go out to bars with the rest of the staff, so I never really got my chances with girls I worked with there. But after a few parties and conversations about the subject of sex, my reputation changed completely with the girls there, once they found out that I wasn't some innocent little boy they had taken me for (I blame this on my overtly polite mannerisms towards women, which have since changed for the better). After that point, I had a lot of them being more cozy around me, hitting on me, at work and at parties, acting visibly disappointed when I wouldn't go to the club with them after work, etc...it was a good feeling to finally be "recognized".
Just get the poon wanting you, and that will get the poon you want. Girls are jealous creatures; they see you're good enough to screw, they'll want in on the action. Welcome back.

Something is better than nothing, and dry spells aren't very fun.

Srs question, are you a virgin? B/c that kind of matters, IMO.

First of all, you're the same age as Dwayne in Little Miss Sunshine, so the advice works especially well for you. But I think Alan Arkin's advice from that film is advice anyone with a penis needs to heed: "Fuck a lotta women, kid. I've got no reason to lie to you. Not just one woman. A lotta women."

There is a difference between inspirational fucking pussy and opportunistic fucking. Each serves its purpose. Misogynistic? Please.

quite good advice

Personally, the person that I lost my virginity to was important to me. It was an important decision for me to make and wasn't just having sex w/ the first girl who offered it to me. Maybe it's important to you, maybe it's not; that's for each person to decide. I understand being a teenager and wanting to just get laid finally, since we've all been through that. Just saying that for me it was something that needed some thought behind it.

It's not misogynistic to nail girls that want to be nailed.

It's a hurdle man, like the first step is always the hardest. Once you've got it out of the way, your confidence and self-esteem will rise...could be a big rise, could be little, depending on how you view yourself now and if being a virgin affects how you relate to women and yourself. I was a late bloomer, so once I had that out of the way, it was like "Oh, that's all sex is, nothing to stress over, just a perk of having a gf/women around." It no longer defines you, and I think you'll eventually opt for the girls you mention who are a good conversation, not just a good body. Having a ton of sex quickly with the same uninteresting person makes you seek someone with more to say.

Beyond the snarkiness, I don't really have any specific advice for you. I mean, you seem cool, but you really do overthink things. Which is obviously better than not thinking at all. But...this stuff is not a science, and attempting to make it one is just gonna end in failure, I think. I'm overly analytical at times too, moreso in the past than now, so I know it's a hard thing to get over. And the internet can't tell you who to have sex with. You just have to decide what you want, and then go get it. You shouldn't decide who to sleep with by committee.

Sorry, I forgot you're a youngin' The friend zone is supposed to be tough to break out of, you just need to stop acting so much like a friend, and start acting more like an independent guy who is attractive to many girls. Try being unavailable more often, teasing them in a cocky and funny way, using touch to show you're confident and sexual/ish, and try and get more than one interested in you, so you can flirt with the girl you don't like to make the girl you do like jealous (I have no idea if this actually works by the way, LOL) My last bit of advice, is you're only young once, so don't regret passing up an opportunity. If you like a girl and the time is right, just ask her to go on a date with you. You've got nothing to lose at your age (except the virginity )