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post #61 of 66
5/8/09 at 6:24pm
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Originally Posted by VKK3450 View Post
If you didnt want to continue talking about it you shouldn't have written a paragraph...
Who said I didn't?
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post #62 of 66
5/8/09 at 6:35pm
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Who said I didn't?

I didnt want to continue here as the OP said "Case Closed" thats why I said if you want to continue we could do so in PM. You said no PM.

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post #63 of 66
5/8/09 at 6:49pm
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I didnt want to continue here as the OP said "Case Closed" thats why I said if you want to continue we could do so in PM. You said no PM.
His case is closed - meaning he doesn't need any advice anymore - but that doesn't mean everyone should stop discussing. I don't see the point of PMing each other as this is an open conversation.

That's fine if you don't want to discuss it any further but I felt the need to react to this righteous and chauvinist argument that those who decide to follow their SO's judgment would be for some reason heartless and ungentlemanly.
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post #64 of 66
5/8/09 at 7:42pm
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It's cool if you want to continue to discuss the situation. I just wanted to make it clear to the people who were continuing to give me advice that my deal was finished and I was ok. I think it's a pretty controversial situation and warrants some more discussion, more power to you if you want to.
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post #65 of 66
5/8/09 at 7:46pm
I appreciate your point about trusting the judgment of your SO, but sometimes a SO's views on what is appropriate differ from our own. Also, in stressful times (as in when someone passes away) peoples judgments can be off from what they normally believe. In looking for emotional support, people may disregard the feelings of others in ways they would not do if they were not under such distress.

I trust the judgment of my girlfriend, but we also come from different backgrounds and sometimes I hold my own ideas of what is appropriate. Sometimes I need to maintain my own ideals even if they differ from hers.

I don't see my comments as chauvinistic. My point was to always to look at it from the view of the family and consider whether attendance could be hurtful to them. Righteous maybe, but the point here was to talk about what we thought was the right thing to do.

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post #66 of 66
5/8/09 at 9:35pm
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The answers to all your questions hinge upon the answer to this one:

Does she know you ordered the hit?

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That's not funny.

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Case closed - she does not want me to go with her for several reasons. Thanks everyone.

You told her you ordered the hit, didn't you
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