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dogie 
Cheers

might get them to do it when I get it but can't actually decide on colour.
You can do some work on your own by getting some magazines with pictures of the look you're going for. This will help any stylist immensely.
Then you can do a simple consultation with as many or few salons as you like which shouldn't cost anything. Ask where you get a haircut for an opinion. If you see someone with cool hair / hair color (men or women) ask where they get it done and call for a consultation. Just go in for a couple of minutes and see what they say. They'll have color swatches which they can show you and plenty of suggestions.
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dogie 
If I was to do it myself, would you recommend going black/dark first as like a base and then go lighter again,
Absolutely not. You're asking for lots of trouble if you do that (color-wise and condition-wise)
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dogie 
and how long would you have to leave before dyes?
If you're doing it yourself, you're basically on your own. There are too many variables that I can't know in just speaking with you over the interwebs. Someone would really have to see your hair and its condition and color.