For the "lighten up" crowd - thanks for the input. The majority of you were born lucky and can roll around in dog shit and look pretty good doing it. A couple of you probably worked for it. The rest of you have little else than genetics to thank. Your nonchalance doesn't count.
For the thinkers who are posting, there are some common threads of thought.
Exercise matters. And you've got something going for you here - you're young. Start now. There's no reason to go nuts. The point isn't to be an extra for the movie 300 by the end of college, but rather to be a healthy and attractive 25... 30... 35... 45 year old.
The questions you are asking should be asked when one looks great naked, but not so great wearing clothes. That person is doing something wrong. If you do not yet look great naked, clothing can only provide the illusion that you do. What is honestly easier? To work out and look great naked... or to try and weigh each and every purchase from now until the end of time to determine whether or not it *hides* some physical flaw?
If you see big hips while standing naked in front of a mirror, wearing shoulder pads can only take you so far. Do pull ups and push ups instead.
Case in point - I'm looking into this right now: http://stronglifts.com/lordosis-why-...how-to-fix-it/ - It is easier for me to work on fixing this than it is to work on hiding it.
Less on the body modification front is the question you have about wearing clothes that are flattering. Women study this. Men aren't so accustomed to doing so, producing the range of responses you're getting here.
Someone else said it first, but I'm definitely feeling that if your waist and up isn't a nice V build, you can't wear skinny legs. Skinny legs will emphasize hips. If you have slim shoulders, <boom> you're a beach ball (even if you're skinny). The less athletically, greek godly proportioned your hips are in your total appearance, the larger your pant leg needs to be.
Keep in mind, too, that SF and SuFu have thousands of readers, yet only two dozen waywt posters regularly post. These people are pretty special. They easily look good in a lot of what they wear. What are the odds you're gonna be one of these people? Not good. And it's not due to "taste". It's genetics.
I know you flip through waywt here and think the guys look pretty normal, but take a sec and think about some of the women who post fits. Bizzy? tg###? CBD? CBD catches a ton of shit and I probably only see a more attractive woman walking around outside once a *year*. Bizzy and TG are two of the most beautiful women (to me, tastes vary) that I've seen EVER. Now apply that relative rarity to the men you see posting.
Part of these communities play under the assumption that you can look good if you *just get it right*. Pick the right fit, find the right brands, choose the right size, tailor the right way. Fact of the matter is, odds are you already look pretty good. You are, after all, paying enough attention to actually spend time reading about appearance. Comparatively, though, no, you don't stack up vs the dirty dozen megarep'd posters, the genetic luckies, and new JEANS won't do it.
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For the thinkers who are posting, there are some common threads of thought.
Exercise matters. And you've got something going for you here - you're young. Start now. There's no reason to go nuts. The point isn't to be an extra for the movie 300 by the end of college, but rather to be a healthy and attractive 25... 30... 35... 45 year old.
The questions you are asking should be asked when one looks great naked, but not so great wearing clothes. That person is doing something wrong. If you do not yet look great naked, clothing can only provide the illusion that you do. What is honestly easier? To work out and look great naked... or to try and weigh each and every purchase from now until the end of time to determine whether or not it *hides* some physical flaw?
If you see big hips while standing naked in front of a mirror, wearing shoulder pads can only take you so far. Do pull ups and push ups instead.
Case in point - I'm looking into this right now: http://stronglifts.com/lordosis-why-...how-to-fix-it/ - It is easier for me to work on fixing this than it is to work on hiding it.
Less on the body modification front is the question you have about wearing clothes that are flattering. Women study this. Men aren't so accustomed to doing so, producing the range of responses you're getting here.
Someone else said it first, but I'm definitely feeling that if your waist and up isn't a nice V build, you can't wear skinny legs. Skinny legs will emphasize hips. If you have slim shoulders, <boom> you're a beach ball (even if you're skinny). The less athletically, greek godly proportioned your hips are in your total appearance, the larger your pant leg needs to be.
Keep in mind, too, that SF and SuFu have thousands of readers, yet only two dozen waywt posters regularly post. These people are pretty special. They easily look good in a lot of what they wear. What are the odds you're gonna be one of these people? Not good. And it's not due to "taste". It's genetics.
I know you flip through waywt here and think the guys look pretty normal, but take a sec and think about some of the women who post fits. Bizzy? tg###? CBD? CBD catches a ton of shit and I probably only see a more attractive woman walking around outside once a *year*. Bizzy and TG are two of the most beautiful women (to me, tastes vary) that I've seen EVER. Now apply that relative rarity to the men you see posting.
Part of these communities play under the assumption that you can look good if you *just get it right*. Pick the right fit, find the right brands, choose the right size, tailor the right way. Fact of the matter is, odds are you already look pretty good. You are, after all, paying enough attention to actually spend time reading about appearance. Comparatively, though, no, you don't stack up vs the dirty dozen megarep'd posters, the genetic luckies, and new JEANS won't do it.
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Did you ever try tucking in that oxford? Would help with the discord there. The sleeves don't have to be real close fitting, but the silhouette ought to be slightly more consistent if you're going to try and have a less fitted top with a super fitted bottom. The tuck would help I think.