If you're having doubts that the artisan might be too wide for you, I had 3 shirts made up a couple months back w/ a trad collar that's not on the pull-down menu, but can be requested and I love them. I haven't had anything made w/ artisan collar yet (which will likely change as of later this week) so I can't compare, but this is a really nice collar. It has some heft to it without as wide of a stance as the spreads and artisan.
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Is that "the Traditional" or "the Kensington"? I also saw "the Conservative" on Individualized's site but it looks too narrow to be the collar that you chose.
Also, love the blue madras on the left. I ended up with that after they ran out of the sky blue linen. :D