Sitting with your legs crossed

kookydooky · Mar 30, 2009

Is it really considered gay or ***** for a guy to sit with their legs crossed or something.

I tend to do it a lot and its comfortable for me yet people seem to always call me out on it acting all overly macho or something.

Whats the big deal with sitting with your legs crossed because I suppose its something I mustve simulated of my grandpa because Ive always been doing it and lok back at old pictures its something he used to do too.

RedLantern · Mar 30, 2009

***** yes, gay no.

Our_Benefactors · Mar 30, 2009

***** = why?

sho'nuff · Mar 30, 2009

i dont see what's wrong with it. what is more manly is just doing what you feel right doing and dont care what other dudes think. stuff like this never cross my mind that i feel unsure enough to ask my e-friends if it is manly or not.

JUST DO IT!!!!

JayJay · Mar 30, 2009

Maybe it's how they are crossed, no?

sho'nuff · Mar 30, 2009

i also sometimes stand akimbo? with my hand on my waist with my posture a bit askew when waiting for something like that may be a gay posture or stance. i even wear pink shirts to work. and style my hair all differently at times to work. people notice, but they never once questioned my manlihood. they always say like, "if brian can wear a pink shirt, then so can i"

i have seen the mailclerk here wear a pink shirt because he said i inspired him.
duh

RedLantern · Mar 30, 2009

Obviously there's nothing wrong with it. Sit the way you want to.

gdl203 · Mar 30, 2009

It depends on whether you're eating quiche or not

skalogre · Mar 30, 2009

Oh come on, do you people seriously worry about such things? Is it such a problem or a deeply-seated insecurity? People will always find a reason to dislike you or assume things so why bother worrying...

Hell, even if people assume you're "gay" or you are sitting "*****" as you said, what is the problem there?

JohnGalt · Mar 30, 2009

Originally Posted by gdl203

It depends on whether you're eating quiche or not

You know, I was just about to bring that up

skalogre · Mar 30, 2009

Originally Posted by gdl203

It depends on whether you're eating quiche or not

kookydooky · Mar 30, 2009

Well its not that I am insecure about sitting that way because I still do it.

I just never realized it was considered 'unmanly' until it started being pointed out and wanted to know if it was a universal thing that people thinko f it as being unmanly or if its just the people in my community

GQgeek · Mar 30, 2009

Originally Posted by kookydooky

Well its not that I am insecure about sitting that way because I still do it.

I just never realized it was considered 'unmanly' until it started being pointed out and wanted to know if it was a universal thing that people thinko f it as being unmanly or if its just the people in my community

I cross my legs, so have no worry. Nothing I do is ****.

Mr T · Mar 30, 2009

Only if you are doing it on another man's naked lap.

dfagdfsh · Mar 30, 2009

just don't do it when wearing a short skirt!!

I SPEAK FROM EXPERIENCE!!!

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