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Turning into a soppy girl's blouse

post #1 of 48
3/10/09 at 2:52am
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So the other day I was, I shall say, coerced into shedding a tear over various issues with my woman.

Since then I have turned into a god damn waterworks. Before this I hadn't cried in years and years and years. What gives? Am I doomed to descend into the depths of becoming some soppy tearfest? Has this happened to anyone else?
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post #2 of 48
3/10/09 at 3:44am
I think more information is required.

Otherwise... yes.
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post #3 of 48
3/10/09 at 10:50am
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post #4 of 48
3/10/09 at 1:29pm
Spill the beans!
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post #5 of 48
3/10/09 at 1:52pm
perhaps she just let you be you.
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post #6 of 48
3/10/09 at 2:32pm
a long gaydom starts with one tear
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post #7 of 48
3/10/09 at 3:01pm
Crying without much explanation is one of the signs of depression I believe...
There is nothing wrong with crying, but if its not something you do often its nothing to laugh about.
No seriously you do have to work out what is behind it, if it is making you cry its probably some pretty serious shit and you need to do something about it, not brush it off.

It's only unmanly if your actually crying about nothing. A man should not be afraid to have, and show, emotions when appropriate it seem to me, some restraint is good, but acting like you feel nothing is fucked up.
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post #8 of 48
3/12/09 at 2:21am
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The trigger event was that I told my woman I had had backups for a period of our relationship in case something went wrong.
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post #9 of 48
3/12/09 at 6:00am
do you feel better after crying?
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post #10 of 48
3/12/09 at 6:08am
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Originally Posted by Tardek View Post
The trigger event was that I told my woman I had had backups for a period of our relationship in case something went wrong.
Sounds to me like you were forced to strategically deploy the tears to stay out of the doghouse.
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post #11 of 48
3/12/09 at 10:01am
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Originally Posted by holymadness View Post
Sounds to me like you were forced to strategically deploy the tears to stay out of the doghouse.

well said
but yes crying is an addiction and nobody minds if u do it in private, seeing a crying man would make me so uncomfortable.
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post #12 of 48
3/12/09 at 2:58pm
I think crying is healthy. I didn't cry for a period of 10 years once. That can't be emotionally healthy.
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post #13 of 48
3/12/09 at 4:22pm
I think you may be getting teh gay
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post #14 of 48
3/12/09 at 6:15pm
Obviously you've got some pent up stuff inside. Crying is release trigger -- knowingly or not, it sounds like you're processing some deep set emotions in areas outside the relationship, and doing so via tears because that worked for the relationship confession. I suspect it will subside and you'll feel all the better for it.
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post #15 of 48
3/12/09 at 6:33pm
I echo the others in this thread. Homo.
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