when you go out, act (and more importantly - BELIEVE) like you are the man. Â Not like a boisterous fool, but a confident gentleman.
Which brings us full circle. Confidence is probably the single biggest asset to have for general success in life. (Brains, probably a close second, but brains w/o confidence gets you nowhere, while confidence w/o brains could get you elected - but I digress). Where can confidence come from? Well to the extent it comes from your appearance, it can come from your looks and your clothes. How much comes from each is up for debate (and likely changes based on the individual). THIS forum, however, is dedicated to discussion of just the clothes aspect. Some people like to look their best, some people lack the confidence (or just the information) to make their own clothing decisions, and still others are simply generous with their knowledge. The bottom line is, however, that each person can and does decide for themselves whether and how these forums help them to be confident, etc. In short, realize that these are style forums, not "life" forums, and that, despite what looking on this or any other enthusiast site may suggest, clothes (or computers, or whatever) are not the be-all end-all of life. Just a potentially interesting component of it.