A)There are different kinds of fashion for gay males and straight males. If you dispute this, go to your local gay bar.
Sorry, no. There is no question that some gay males choose to dress in a way that distinquishes themselves from others (just as many lesbians may make that choice). However, there is no gay male fashion per se. Indeed, the vast, over-whelming majority of my gay male friends, colleagues, neighbors, and acquantances dress no differently, as a group, than the vast, over-whelming majority of my straight male friends, colleagues, neighbors, and acquantances. this means that, for the most part, like most men. Some, straight or gay, care passionately about clothing and dress very well. Some, straight or gay, are true slobs. Most are in the great middle. I do know a handful of gay men who choose to be overtly flamboyant and use clothing as a coistume to make a statement, but that is a relatively small majority. And, yes, Policy, I do not live in a sheltered community.