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Asking girls for numbers before/after finding out their relationship status

post #1 of 75
2/13/09 at 9:32am
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post #2 of 75
2/13/09 at 9:50am
Well, if she doesn't want to give her number, she will say she has a bf. I just kinda feel it out, I have asked if they are single before getting a number, and sometimes I don't.
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post #3 of 75
2/13/09 at 10:04am
I'd say if you ask before you ask, you better be asking as a friend rather than an interested party.
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post #4 of 75
2/13/09 at 10:15am
I ask for girls numbers when they're flirting with me and I think I have a chance. Them being single is implied.
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post #5 of 75
2/13/09 at 10:17am
If they give you their number, it doesn't matter they have a boyfriend. It's moot. So there's no need to ask.

Numbers are for losers.
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post #6 of 75
2/13/09 at 10:27am
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Originally Posted by texas_jack View Post
I ask for girls numbers when they're flirting with me and I think I have a chance. Them being single is implied.

Yeah seriously you just feel it out. I feel like there's a disturbingly large portion of SFers who think that women/dating should be reducible to some sort of flowchart or algorithm.
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post #7 of 75
2/13/09 at 10:34am
Never ask before you get the phone number. Just get the phone number, if she doesn't say she has a boyfriend right there, she'll say it the first time you call asking for a date.
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post #8 of 75
2/13/09 at 11:02am
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Yeah seriously you just feel it out. I feel like there's a disturbingly large portion of SFers who think that women/dating should be reducible to some sort of flowchart or algorithm.

Dude, binary 0/1, men want physical intimacy while women look for emotional one. Man will make themselves look powerful to obtain sex while women will offer sex to get at powerful men. Men are blablabla, women are blablabla. We got too many finance students on the board, they all want to calculate the ROI of going to the gym in BJ units.
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post #9 of 75
2/13/09 at 11:06am
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We got too many finance students on the board, they all want to calculate the ROI of going to the gym in BJ units.


HAHAHAHAHAHA
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post #10 of 75
2/13/09 at 11:27am
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We got too many finance students on the board, they all want to calculate the ROI of going to the gym in BJ units.
That is so funny! I am a Finance student and I used to try to calculate the (subjective) probability of certain courtship strategies being able to get me some womenz. Of course, my theories never worked.
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post #11 of 75
2/13/09 at 11:29am
Don't ask about her status before asking for her number. A woman who is not interested in you or unavailable will find a way to mention her boyfriend very early in the conversation. If she's talking to you for more than five minutes, hasn't mentioned her boyfriend, and isn't running away, she's probably open to going out with you. Proceed as if she's single.
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post #12 of 75
2/13/09 at 11:32am
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Originally Posted by Ambulance Chaser View Post
A woman who is not interested in you or unavailable will find a way to mention her boyfriend very early in the conversation.

This is very true..
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post #13 of 75
2/13/09 at 11:38am
I never ask a girl if she has a boyfriend. You'll find out when you ask for her number (or if she isn't interested she'll throw in the detail during the conversation).
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post #14 of 75
2/13/09 at 1:41pm
dam no wonder when i walk into a room all i hear are girls screaming i have a boyfriend! some throw i have a boyfriend signs up and shit. they dun want meh!?
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post #15 of 75
2/14/09 at 2:43am
There should be a relationship sub forum.
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