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post #1 of 27
2/6/09 at 11:46pm
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I just wanted to throw this forward on to the forum:
I have been casually dating this girl on and off for some time now... She got out of a relationship solely because of religious differences *figures* and I have pondered over the thought of getting serious with her numerous times. The only thing holding me back from making a major move is that fact that she is clearly "heart broken" over her boyfriend. Now I ask you gentlemen, do I even bother or get the hell out of this scenario? Furthermore, she is a virgin... but has had ample relationship experience. Any advice is appreciated, but if its unrealistic advice, please keep it to yourself. Thanks.
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post #2 of 27
2/6/09 at 11:50pm
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I also meant to add, she is NOT over her ex and brings his name up from time to time even though she has broken all connections with him. =/
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post #3 of 27
2/7/09 at 12:27am
And you're stressed over what to get her for Valentine's Day?

Dude, you're the rebound. Get over it.
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post #4 of 27
2/7/09 at 12:28am
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Originally Posted by FLMountainMan View Post
And you're stressed over what to get her for Valentine's Day?

Dude, you're the rebound. Get over it.

+1. Try to take her virginity, and then see how it plays out. Don't expect anything serious.
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post #5 of 27
2/7/09 at 12:31am
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+1. Try to take her virginity, and then see how it plays out. Don't expect anything serious.

+1 somebody's got to do it.
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post #6 of 27
2/7/09 at 12:44am
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+1. Try to take her virginity, and then see how it plays out. Don't expect anything serious.
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Originally Posted by RedLantern View Post
+1 somebody's got to do it.
Yeah, because sex with a virgin is soooooo hot.....the tears (both words in this homonym), the bleeding (sometimes), the emotional clusterfuck......just too hot to resist. Seriously, keep it casual with her. See other people. If she ever starts to get over the ex, re-evaluate the situation, but until then there is no reason to get too involved or too worked up. Good luck.
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post #7 of 27
2/7/09 at 12:45am
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Yeah, because sex with a virgin is soooooo hot.....the tears, the bleeding (sometimes), the emotional clusterfuck......just too hot to resist.

Sex w/ virgin > no sex.
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post #8 of 27
2/7/09 at 12:47am
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Sex w/ virgin > no sex.

+1
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post #9 of 27
2/7/09 at 12:48am
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Sex w/ virgin > no sex.

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Originally Posted by ctrlaltelite View Post
+1

Are those the only options available for you guys? Sheesh.
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post #10 of 27
2/7/09 at 12:50am
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Are those the only options available for you guys? Sheesh.

If this guy were getting it elsewhere, then he wouldn't be starting threads about this here. In my mind, at least.
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post #11 of 27
2/7/09 at 12:54am
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If this guy were getting it elsewhere, then he wouldn't be starting threads about this here. In my mind, at least.

Could be. Maybe I'm just reading the original post from a different (read: less sexual) angle. If all the guy wants to know is if he should make a move on her sexually, then it seems like a really stupid post. If he wants to know about something deeper, then I think your guys' advice sucks (sorry) and he should keep his distance for now.
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post #12 of 27
2/7/09 at 12:57am
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Could be. Maybe I'm just reading the original post from a different (read: less sexual) angle. If all the guy wants to know is if he should make a move on her sexually, then it seems like a really stupid post. If he wants to know about something deeper, then I think your guys' advice sucks (sorry) and he should keep his distance for now.

Of course our advice sucks in a real situation. It's an internet forum. I can't take this guy's life seriously; I barely take my own seriously.
Although honestly, the guy knows that making a move with this girl isn't right. If he was comfortable making a move on her, he wouldn't have started this thread. If he really wants to be with her, he'll wait until she's ready to move on. If she's not worth the wait, then he needs to move on. But if he tries to do anything now, he'll just be the rebound like FLMM said in the first reply.
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post #13 of 27
2/7/09 at 1:00am
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Of course our advice sucks in a real situation. It's an internet forum. I can't take this guy's life seriously; I barely take my own seriously.
Although honestly, the guy knows that making a move with this girl isn't right. If he was comfortable making a move on her, he wouldn't have started this thread. If he really wants to be with her, he'll wait until she's ready to move on. If she's not worth the wait, then he needs to move on. But if he tries to do anything now, he'll just be the rebound like FLMM said in the first reply.

Fair enough, but I still think sex with virgins = meh at best.
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post #14 of 27
2/7/09 at 1:04am
*edit* guess it's already been covered
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post #15 of 27
2/7/09 at 1:22am
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Of course our advice sucks in a real situation. It's an internet forum. I can't take this guy's life seriously; I barely take my own seriously.
New sig material!!!!
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