Originally Posted by Fuuma
There is a definite mould of heteronormalcy that I often find quite hard to deal with even as a straight man so I know where why and rach are coming from.
In my experience, women are more determined by that mould. But still, they can be enlightened.
Originally Posted by thekunk07
no such thing as bi in my opinion. just an uncommitted ghey (nothing wrong with ghey).
That's wrong. Ultimately, it's a matter of definition, though. Many gays don't like to acknowledge bisexuality, and they have a point. Indeed, identifying as "bi" is often used by some closeted gays. And you can also say that militant bisexuals have an annoying superiority complex ("I don't care about the sex, I love the person" is a quote that is just a way to show everybody else how limited they are). Some gays even resent the free-riding lifestyle that bis can enjoy (enjoying heterosexual normalcy while enjoying the benefits of a gay alternative lifestyle when they want). None of those reasons strike me as sufficient to deny reality though. There are "bisexuals" out there, by any reasonable definition of the term.