Originally Posted by Ã‰tienne
Straight relationships are so varied that if you try and shun everything that is a mirror image of straight relationships, you don't have many possibilities left.
There is a definite mould of heteronormalcy that I often find quite hard to deal with even as a straight man so I know where why and rach are coming from. Heavily scripted scenarios for interactions and normative weight can put a strain on my tolerance of "the other" as surely as say, an unkempt mollusc.
On the other hand women can have such an endearing way of fetichizing consumption that is about sheer sensual enjoyment and not a conduit for their feeling of (im)potency that I love 'em material bitches.