TOJ is your best bet in terms of fit. They do MTM for around $800. However, you would have to distress the jacket yourself.
The only thing I can think of is J. Crew makes a distressed moto-style jacket you may like, it is darker though.
It claims it is black, but it looks more like a distressed dark brown to me. I had it at one point, but sent it back because I like TOJ better. Here is...