I would say to put the kibosh on kops for a month minimum and try not to be on SF too much when you are around her. The initial shock has clearly not worn off yet.
You can buy her all the Prada in the world, she will still be mad about your kops and indulgence of SF. Just peel back a little on SF time that she would notice and hold off on kops.
I bet if you do that for a month and then slowly increase to a level that is not insane it will be ok.