Thanks for all the feedback people...both good and bad!
I bought it on a whim, w/o even trying it on...mistake #1, but I can return it. It is a 40R, which is what I generally wear. Once home and getting around to trying it on, it is not slim...more of a "classic" fit which brings me to my 2nd issue - I find it a little boxy, but am no expert in SC fit.
I will get a proper fit pic up soon.
Looking forward to any and all feedback.