Got this nice Egyptian cotton white dress shirt from Brooks Brothers.com about six months ago, first time I ever encountered one with a barbell collar stay. Tried to take the damn thing off, couldn't, left it in the closet. I want to wear it tomorrow for work, so I pull it out, try my damnest to take this thing off, but it does NOT WANT TO COME OFF! I tried unscrewing, pulling, tugging..wth? How do you get this damn thing off?! Frustrated.