tie is nice, but may not look very good with a grey suit depending on how close the shades are.
The pattern on the toe of the shoes is horrific. If this is a business setting, find some different footwear
oh for gods sake with the "woman in need" bullshit. Women have purses...95% of the ones I've met have at least one tissue in there. I'm not sure what ridiculous scenarios you guys have drafted in your minds about some damsel in distress, but you aren't fred astaire and this isn't 1955. Its a complete non issue.