Gentlemen (?): Ya know, I just signed up on this site to get some wedding (NO, not MINE) etiquette info and I have to tell you, I'm trippin'...............I'm a widow (3 1/2 years) and haven't even begun to THINK about dating, so haven't put much thought into all the "trials and tribulations" of the bullshit that goes along with that game. Then, I come into this forum to find a guy who sleeps with a colleague, gets his jollies, is obviously STILL in lust (don't know...