I have similar hair and I've got something similar to this going on. Embrace the wave in the front, just not on the sides. Get the sides and the back tapered down so they don't curl as much and keep growing it on top and if it gets too long just taper it back but keep a little quiff going on up front. I'm not an expert, but I think that would work best for you.
1/23/10 at 9:43pm