dieworkwear is the expert here, but my experience is that jeans end up looser rather than tighter as long as you never, ever, ever put them in the dryer (not that anyone hear would ever think of such heretical behavior).
Shoes look tight.
If you have the same problem with other shoes, you probably need a good professional shoe fitting. If your other shoes are fine, the last on this particular AE model may not work for you or you may simply be wearing the wrong size. Can you go to an AE store or a Nordstrom? Either one usually has experienced fitters.