Is this a grammar correction? If it is, I think I am correct. "Were" is because it is not black, "was" implies that I am unsure if it was actually black or not. It isn't black, so it must be "were". Am I off-base here? (I went to public school).
I'm just not into my current opportunities. She thinks I need to break out of my comfort zone a bit if it is a relationship that I want. I just cant keep carrying on my normal routine hoping somebody will just come along. She said I could certainly do. Ether being more direct with women I think are attractive...I feel like I am 18 years old all over again and a fatty.