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Quote: Originally Posted by iammatt PM the member known as GQGeek. He had a similar situation (well, he wasn't actually having sex with the girl) and I think he found that sending the boyfriend food from nice restaurants worked out swimmingly, but my memory can be hazy these days.
Quote: Originally Posted by mharwitt you need to dump her. his craziness aside, she still lives with him and it's too soon after too long of a relationship for anything good to come of this. think about why a girl would stay with a guy like that for so long. this is "don't" dating 101. While my logical side pretty much agrees with you, it has progressed past that point and I can't just up and leave. Anyways, this thread wasn't asking for...
Quote: Originally Posted by RSS Given the circumstances ... I'd remove myself as far as possible from all involved ... including the girl. Much easier said than done. Quote: Originally Posted by Joenobody0 You sound like a codependent teenager who wants the thrill of saving a girl who's "really worth it" and "been through some hard times". Do whatever you want and maybe some day you'll grow up. Not even...
Quote: Originally Posted by Teacher Get a hold of the note and get a restraining order. Don't be a tough guy. Just because he hasn't been violent before doesn't mean there won't be a first time. I talked to my gf this morning, and told her to take the note with her when she went to work, so I will have it tonight when she comes over, and will be filing a police report ASAP. How does it work to get a restraining order, do I just ask when...
Quote: Originally Posted by Dakota rube Um. It's his place. And you say your gf and this dude had a 5-year relationship? You're 19; how old is she? There's enough bad karma in this situation to last you for quite awhile, man. Tread carefully. Not quite sure what you mean by it's his place. They've been splitting the rent for the 2 or so years they've lived together, and it's only been the past couple months that his dad's been paying,...
Quote: Originally Posted by Jodum5 Uhh [scold on/ how did you get yourselves into this mess? She should've known better before getting involved with someone else while still living with her ex (unstable or not that's just fucking weird). How fucked up his her life that she can't find anyone, ANYONE that would put her up on their couch for a few weeks given she's stuck with a nutjob? How fucked up are you that you got involved with someone with so...
Quote: Originally Posted by DerekS looks like you got yourself in a pickle. been with her for 2 months and youre in love? i think thats what I would be worried about. But I digress...ive been in a similar situation before...im sure youll be fine..i wouldnt sweat it. Yeah, it kind of just happened, we moved pretty fast. But I've known her for about a year and a half, and I've always seen her as someone I could easily see myself with, I...
Quote: Originally Posted by Blackhood Well getting hold of a gun would be a good start. Tell your secretary/building security not to let him in would be another. If you're genuinely nervous about a conflict then ordering a Tazer from the internet might give you a little security? I'm in Canada, so the gun isn't a possibility, and I don't think the taser is either. I work in a shitty retail job (I'm 19 and in university), so there isn't any...
Kind of a tricky situation, not quite sure what I should do. I'll try to keep it brief. My new girlfriend (2 months or so), still lives with her ex-boyfriend at the moment, due to being a) completely broke and in debt, and b) unable to find an affordable place yet with her mom or a friend. They were in a long-term relationship (5 years or so), but for the last year or so, she's been trying to leave him because he's a 26 year old stoner with no prospects besides...
Quote: Originally Posted by kwilkinson Thanks for providing me with a royalty check this month you'd think the OneNut joaks would get old, but they never seem to.
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