Originally Posted by SkinnyGoomba
Would you ever tell an invited guest of yours that they're underdressed, or do you consider this rude?
I would, if I specified the dress code clearly and they shot well under the mark, but I'd leave it at that and get on with the party. If they're overdressed, I would offer to take their jacket & tie, but not chastise them.
As for your situation, there was nothing wrong with what you were wearing, but...