OK - thanks guys.
Sorry for the unnecessary thread - I still a newb and didn't know. I was honestly trying to learn some of the protocols for buy&sell here so that I won't piss off anyone else the wrong way. I like this forum and I like buying things from the members here.
As an FYI, being polite is just my nature - I don't do it on purpose to piss people off.
I did go back read Kane's other posts and he does seem like a decent guy. I guess I just rubbed him...