have you tried online matchmaking? i am a regular in another forum (dominanted by girls) and you'll be surprised how many tried it, worked out for them, and think very highly of it. the bad rap that it gets is unfair. a lot of ppl aren't into clubs and bars. and online, you get to vet them, and get to know them first before going on dates, which is something you can't do with traditional means of dating. give it a try!