seriously, take it from me. I tried ging on there, because I'm a pretty heavy redditor. It's a shithole. To get your intended effect, just browse the WAYWT. I'd suggest not even posting a thing until you've browsed for 6months to a year (I didn't even make an account until lurking for a year) and after that it took me 6 months to start posting regularly. It will benefit you infinitely if you just intently observe and listen.