Dude dont use the argument that the european style is more fitted and therefore better. Just like a lot of americans wear oversized stuff in a bad way, a lot of europeans wear shit thats too tight in a bad way. Doesnt make it right.
Judging by your fits you clearly dont know what youre doing - start by sizing correctly and it will be a big improvement. Also learn to take criticism and to shut up sometimes.
That coming from a fellow 'european' btw, whatever that means..