Congrats GuP! I agree with you, let the bride be the center of attention. Every woman has dreamt of her wedding day since she was a little girl, so let it be her day.But, no cummerbunds please. I also wore a tux at my wedding (albeit a brown one...) and opted for a waistcoat that subtly referred to my wife's gown. Of course, with her looking so spectacular, none of the guests had the slightest interest in how the groom looked.