Pink shirts with grey suits is a great combo. Just ask Pingson.As for the look of your suit vs Spoo's Tom Ford (I believe), how about in comparison to mine?I still dont think grey chalk stripe means oldmanish.
The correct height/angle of selfie will make a big difference...the recent/ongoing debate between MF and FM demonstrates that well.
I've lens corrected a little to give a better idea from your latest pic and it looks to me like it fits the shoulders well, the lapels need re-pressing, and it needs to be let out a little at the side seams. Suge suggested that perhaps the front/back balance may be off, but the bottom hem is looking pretty level and the bottom button...
I've yet to find much good on the Big Island, and I suspect the Hilo side to be worse than the Kona side merely because of the wealth divide. Molokai, I'm sure, will be useless too. Oahu may have something by way of Aloha shirts, but I doubt much of anything MC.At least that means you'll have more time for fun, though. Make sure you check out Volcanoes National Park.Aloha!