That is pure gold.My wife only ever ask me to hold the purse/ bag in emergencies. The idea of a gonadised man next to her repulses her to the core. In her culture, there is a strict demarcation of male/female roles in society. Curiously, there is little acceptance of the concept of submissive partner. The missus rules at home and within the family, the man rules vis a vis everything outside. There are exceptions, of course.