X-post from WAYWRN classy thread...
Casual (by SF standards ) in early spring. Poszetka shantung bow tieMassimo Dutti shirtScotch & Soda cotton waistcoatSamsöe Samsöe chinosTiger of Sweden beltPRL OTC socksLoake Asquith
The main thing to be pay attention to here is how wide the wings spread out.
If they are wider than your jaw-line it is going to look clown-ish
The height seems fine for you - I have 2", 2 1/4 and 2½" bow ties and I also find that they have different expressions. But if the "overall size" bothers you try and squeeze the blades towards the knot. It will not help with the height of the blades, but it can give the impression that the bow tie isn't as volumious.