Yeah the sizing I got is smaller than the Napoli and Lazio 32. Its probably about a 31.
I did get the pants hemmed up a bit more and I had the jacket let out. I just haven't had time to reshoot with new photos (my photographer is in Japan right now).
Looking back I should have went with the standard SS lapels because mine are slightly too skinny even for my frame.
Also yeah they won't let you change the lapel gorge at all.