Well, this may be the rare instance in which marking down value may fuck you up, since you cannot insure a package for more than the stated value. Customs may also take a dim view of a retailer sending a "gift".
I don't know what is affordable for you, but I have a Belvest cashmere one, a Kin heavy twill one, and a Robert Geller Richard market, that retailed about $1200, $500, and $430, respectively. I use the Robert Geller the most, by far. Anything with texture will work, from engineered garments to Tom Ford.
Definitely, though, tbh, I am myself attracted to women who look like they can't enjoy a burger without feeling guilty, or who look too fragile. Athletic, but not fanatical, is nice. Fit models are generally in the "California surfer girl" mode, which is achievable by a lot of women.