I am the administrator and owner of this site. I was asked to ask you whether Paypal would be a valid form of payment, or if not, what would be, Paypal is typically considered quite safe.
I'll see what I can do. Often, there is a balance between not being assertive enough, and being so assertive that people want to not do things for you just because you are being annoyingly demanding. I sit on both sides of these negotiations regularly, so I'm pretty confident in my ability to create a good balance. Cheers, Fok.