I had this same problem. I ended up finding a slim fit white french cuff at a store called Sarar. Never heard of it before but the fit, fabric, and quality seemed good so I bought it. Wore it to a wedding over the weekend and loved...
I smoke cigarettes. I have had $6 in my wallet (the approximate price of smokes) for about two weeks now because I refuse to use it in order to avoid change.
Sorry this doesn't help, but I feel your hate of change.
I'd go with a Blue/Red striped (regimental) tie. It's classic/conservative and looks great. For the second tie go with something that catches your eye. This way you will have an appropriate tie for conservative occasions and one for...