Good ideas, thanks dudes. Part of the problem for me is there aren't many options beyond LensCrafters type places in my city, besides the one place that has Oliver Peoples. Not crazy about ordering glasses online, it's so hard to tell what's going to look not-terrible when worn.
Guess that's a point in favor of Warby Parker since they have the home try on thing. Will be in Portland soon and see if they have some better options there.