hey, thanks guys. (although it's not a loss, yet). My grandmother is 87 and gravely ill and has less than 2 weeks in the tank. She's lived a great life and it's time. i appreciate the thoughts.
I am a pall bearer and need a black suit anyway. getting to that age (39) where funerals are becoming more of the norm that the exception. So, if you've got something, would really appreciate it.